逢迎的，讨好的；

1. ingratiatory的反义词

1. 逢迎的：ingratiation 逢迎 | ingratiatory 逢迎的 | ingratitude 忘恩

1. calculated to please or gain favor

    e.g. a smooth ingratiating manner

    Synonym: ingratiatinginsinuating

2. pleasingly persuasive or intended to persuade

    e.g. a coaxing and obsequious voice
           her manner is quiet and ingratiatory and a little too agreeable

    Synonym: coaxing